Many times we don’t always have Confidence in our abilities
to our work, project, assignment, mission etc…. and so I think what separate
confidence v’s insecurities? I’ve been on both sides and I can attest that as
we speak I am in confident mode. When you are passionate about what your doing
you are confident. When you have a purpose you are confident. You know where
you are moving towards... Just like horses...
Horses are very similar like humans. They pout and smile just like us. They also need to be trained and coached to built up their confidence. They were not born with it it's trained. They have a social life and have a rich communication with their eyes, their movement, their mouth and so on... And so I wondered how do they appear with great stamina and energy to do their work which is run races...
Well...
It brings me to the analogy of the"GPS" If you are driving without a GPS trying to find an
address what happens? Imagine yourself being in a different city and not able to find your
way. You will feel lost, insecured, nervous… Geez! I speak for myself as I had
recently was on a mini vacay in the woods of Big Bear County. I was pet sitting
for “honey” my sister and brother in law’s kitty (meow meow) and completely got
lost trying to find my way back home.
Even if I had GPS I would not be able to find it. The
streets were very dark and with lots of swirls and wide turns. But prayer
worked and lots of affirmations telling myself “You got this!” Had to train my
brain to and keep repeating myself Your there, your there your there and then
lower the music in the car ha! Why do we do that? Why do we lower the music
when we are lost or trying to find an address? (Million Dollar Question?)
As soon as I reached the cabin I knew I found the place and
was able to breathe and thank God for guiding me into safety. I even had to call
my sister but somehow knew she was not able to help me and I was right, she
couldn’t help me so it was just me, God and dark roads to nowhere!
I started to feel confident as soon as I was reaching home. Just got in time to feed the kitty and rest assured that even if you
feel lost you will find your way around as long as you don’t give up. You have
to keep going and don’t stop! It's usually towards the end that people give up when it comes to their aspirations, goals, ideas....
My question to you is “What Do You Have Total Confidence In?
Everyone has talents some might be creative, artistic, some may sing, act, some
may do missions, charity work, philanthropy work… You don’t have to be born
with that talent you can discover it while doing something else. Some are born
to speak, influence, lead while others are comfortable following, getting
taught and growing
To find something your confident in you have to believe in
it first! What are you passionate about? Find that! The skills will come after
because you will be so in love with it by achieving results that you will
completely forget about the skills or money. It will come believe me! It always
does when you love what you do! What fires you up? Find that!
And so I end this blog with one of my all time favorite quotes:
Have A Great One!
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